Polyamory Therapy in Delaware & Pennsylvania

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You’re not doing relationships “wrong.” You’re just doing them differently—and that’s allowed.

But damn - it can still get complicated.

  • You feel like you have to constantly “prove” you're doing non-monogamy the “right” way OR

  • You’re curious about opening up a relationship, but worry it might break what’s already feeling fragile

  • You’re struggling with jealousy, insecurity, or disconnection—and then judging yourself for it

  • You’ve hit some bumps—fights that feel too familiar, misaligned needs, or conversations that go nowhere—and it’s starting to wear you down

  • You love your people, but it’s hard to keep showing up when your own needs keep getting lost in the mix

You want support from someone who actually gets it—not someone who treats non-monogamy like a problem to be fixed.

I’m not here to tell you what your relationships should look like—I’m here to help you make them work for you.

I don’t believe there’s one “right” way to do polyamory, open relationships, or any other for of non-monogamy (apart from honestly - of course!). What matters is what actually works for you—your values, your nervous system, your capacity. Whether you’re solo polyam, part of a triad or expanded polycule dynamic, or a monogamous couple considering opening up, I work with all kinds of relationship constellations and individuals navigating non-monogamy.

In our sessions, we’ll untangle the stories you've inherited about love, loyalty, and self-worth—and start rewriting them into something that actually fits. We’ll explore how to stay grounded during hard conversations, how to name and meet your needs without guilt, and how to handle conflict without it swallowing you whole.

I bring both lived experience and clinical training to this work, so you don’t have to waste time explaining the basics. Whether you’re navigating big transitions, communication breakdowns, jealousy, or just trying to feel more grounded in how you love and connect, this isn’t about judgment. It’s about building self-trust, staying connected to your people and yourself, and making space for relationships that are honest, intentional, and real.

As a non-monogamous person, or someone interested in this type of relationship, therapy can help you…

  • Stop feeling stuck in a relationship you can't fix, and start figuring out what you need to feel secure.

  • Find relief from the jealousy, fear, and guilt that make you second-guess everything.

  • Let go of the anxiety about “doing it wrong” and find confidence in how you navigate your relationships.

  • Break the cycle of miscommunication, where every conversation feels like an argument.

  • Rediscover joy and excitement without the pressure to meet everyone’s expectations.

I support folks who practice polyamory and other types of non-monogamy in…

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    Individual Therapy

    Whether you’re navigating big emotions, trying to figure out your boundaries, struggling with how to put yourself out there, or unpacking past patterns, I’m here to support you in gaining clarity and confidence in your relationships.

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    Relationship Therapy

    Whether you’re in a polycule, triad, or a couple considering opening up, I work with you to strengthen communication, build trust, and create a relationship dynamic that works for everyone involved.

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    Online Therapy

    No matter where you are in Delaware or Pennsylvania, I offer virtual sessions so you can access a non-monogamy-competent therapist from the comfort of your own home—without needing someone in your immediate area.

Your relationships don’t have to be this hard.
There’s a path to healthier communication, more trust, and deeper connection—let’s find it together.

Frequently asked questions about therapy for polyamory and other non-monogamous relationships

  • If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about how to move forward in your relationship(s), therapy can be a great way to get some clarity and support. You don’t have to have everything figured out to start therapy. If you’re questioning your relationship choices, dealing with feelings of frustration, or just need someone to help you work through communication issues, you’re ready. I’m here to help you navigate this journey—whether you’re just starting to question things or are deep into figuring it all out.

  • Whether you’re just starting to explore non-monogamy, are curious but unsure, or find yourself somewhere in between, therapy can be a grounding space to sort through the questions without pressure or judgment. You might be wondering what kind of relationships feel right for you, how to talk to a partner about your needs, or whether you’re exploring polyamory for the right reasons. Together, we’ll untangle those questions, clarify your values, and build the self-trust you need to move forward in a way that feels aligned and empowered—whether that means non-monogamy, monogamy, or something in between.

  • Jealousy and insecurity are totally normal feelings, no matter what type of relationship you’re in. In non-monogamous relationships, these emotions can be especially challenging. In therapy, we’ll work to understand the root of these feelings, whether they stem from past experiences, unmet needs, or fears about the future. I’ll help you develop tools to communicate openly with your partners, manage your emotions, and build self-confidence so that jealousy and insecurity don’t dictate the course of your relationships.

  • I work with individuals, couples, and polycules (groups of any size). I’m happy to talk through this with you on free consult call (click here to get on my calendar!) We can discuss whether it would make the most sense for you to come solo, with one partner, or multiple partners or metamours! The goal is to create a space where everyone involved can communicate openly, feel heard, and make progress together. I’ll support whatever structure makes the most sense for your unique relationships.

  • I know that coordinating schedules—especially with more than two people—can feel like a puzzle. We’ll work together to find a rhythm that fits everyone’s lives, whether that means weekly sessions, every other week, or something more flexible. Some clients come together as a group, while others might have some individual sessions, or those with just two people at a time, along with “whole group” sessions. We’ll figure out what makes sense for your relationship dynamic and go from there.

  • It depends. Because therapy is regulated by state licensure, I can only provide therapy to people who are physically located in Delaware or Pennsylvania at the time of the session. If someone in your relationship or polycule lives outside those states, I can’t include them directly in therapy—but I’m happy to help you think through other ways to get support.

    That might look like referring them to a non-monogamy-competent provider in their own state, or—if they’re already seeing a therapist—collaborating with that person through a signed release. And even if not everyone can be in the room, I can still work with you (or you and any members of your constellation who are within my licensed states). Therapy often has a ripple effect—your growth can shift the entire dynamic, even if not everyone is sitting in session.

    Depending on your situation, we can also explore shared communication tools, values-based exercises, or other ways to coordinate support across your relationship system, even if people are in different places.

Please feel free to review my general FAQ page here as well for additional answers to common questions about therapy overall.